Is it OK to have sex during pregnancy?

Learn the answers to questions about sex and pregnancy.

Is it OK to have sex during pregnancy?

For most couples, sex is safe during pregnancy. If there are any complications during your pregnancy that would make sex unsafe, your provider should discuss this with you.

Most women are not feeling well during the first trimester, with nausea, fatigue and breast tenderness. Wanting to have sex is usually not a high priority for them. However, during the second trimester most women usually start to feel better and are not too big from the pregnancy to be uncomfortable. Sex can be very enjoyable during the second trimester. This can be a good time to go on a “babymoon.” Enjoy this time together as a couple, because soon your lives will be changed forever.

Can sex during pregnancy cause a miscarriage?

Your cervix gets more blood flow to it when you are pregnant, so it can bleed easier either after sex or after an exam by your provider such as a pap smear. This will not cause a miscarriage. Most miscarriages happen because the fetus does not develop correctly. If you have pink or brown spotting after sex, it is OK and can be monitored. But if you have bright red bleeding, then you should call your provider.

Can sex hurt my baby?

No, because a mucus plug, which is located inside your cervix separates the amniotic sac and uterus from anything that gets in the vagina, including his penis.

Can sex trigger early labor?

While it is true that orgasms and the prostaglandins in semen can cause your uterus to contract, it should not cause early labor. If you are uncomfortable after having sex, empty your bladder, drink a glass of water and rest. If you are cramping, it should go away with these measures. If the contractions get worse, you should contact your provider.

Sex should be avoided in the following situations:

  • Preterm labor (contractions before 37 weeks)
  • Incompetent cervix (weak cervix)
  • Placenta previa (placenta over cervix)

How soon is it OK to have sex after delivery?

It is recommended to wait until you have your six-week postpartum checkup. This allows time for the cervix to close and the uterus to return to its normal size. The postpartum bleeding has usually stopped and any tears should have healed by then. Ovulation (releasing an egg) can occur very quickly after your delivery, so make sure to talk with your provider about birth control. You are more likely to have a healthy pregnancy by following the recommended spacing between pregnancies of 18 to 24 months.

Sex is an important and healthy component to the relationship you have with your partner. If you have questions about sex during your pregnancy, talk with your provider.

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