Science, sports, music, drawing or building – so many choices. While children are not choosing their careers at this age, they are learning about their interests, passions and joys.
Your child may be interested in everything or may have found a specific interest. Either way, your child needs your nurturing and support while learning about themselves and forming their personal identity.
To nurture and support your child:
- Avoid judgement. Your child’s interest may not be the same as yours and that’s OK. Don’t judge what your child likes based on your own personal preferences.
- Join the search. Introduce your child to new things on a regular basis; get creative when you help your child try new things. Visit local shops or libraries, introduce books on diverse subjects, or try fun crafts, experiments and other activities at home.
- Provide encouragement. Provide time and space for your child to enjoy their interests. If they enjoy musical instruments, provide a special space to practice. If they enjoy drawing or building, make a spot where it can be done without interruptions – not the dining room table.
- Give support. You may not have the same passion as your child, but you can show your support through encouraging words and actions. You don’t have to buy the biggest science kit or sign up for every soccer camp. Show your support by looking up some do-at-home science projects on the internet or going outside and playing soccer together.
Tips on trying new activities:
- Seek out local resources. Look for local shops or libraries offering fun workshops for children. Check with your school regarding clubs or after-school activities that sound interesting or fall in line with your child’s interests.
- Test before committing. Even if you identify an interest that seems perfect for your child, start slowly. There’s no guarantee that it will be a good fit. Let them try it for a couple of weeks before you make a big commitment.
- Know when to let your child move on. Some passions last into adulthood, while others won’t last very long even if your child enjoys them. When your child is ready to try something else instead, don’t pressure them to continue. Instead, support your child as they continue to explore the many things the world has to offer.
With so many choices, your child’s interests will likely change over time. Take time to enjoy this journey of self-discovery together.
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Posted In Children's, Family Medicine, Parenting
